Monday, October 1, 2007

What Every Man Should Know (That Most Women Won't Tell You) Pt. 1

This is a series of observations, and I'll be posting different parts over time.

The thing is, women expect men to just know the right answer or the right thing to do, but that is sooo wrong. you cannot a expect a man to know what to do right out of the gate. Just like a woman does not not understand a man all the time, they don't understand us either.

Here you go guys. We now come with a handbook! These are some tips and tricks to help you better understand a woman. It's not foolproof, but it's insight and probably more than you knew before.

Part One: Winning Her Over

1. Women want to be made to feel special. We do not just come when called. If we do, beware. We may have ulterior motives.

2. Nothing makes a girl feel better than knowing she is truly wanted.

3. Stereotypical gifts, such as flowers and candy, do not mean as much as something you actually put thought into. Remember that time she told you that she likes to write poetry? Well, a new journal will mean a lot more to her than roses that will die in a week. (However, getting her favorite flowers or a bouquet in her favorite color, is a special exception to this rule. This shows her you were paying attention.)

4. Hang out with her friends. Women tend put a lot of stock into what her friends think and how they react to you. When you meet them be yourself. It’s not that she won’t date you if they don’t like you, but it means a lot to her to be able to hang out with a potential boyfriend and her friends at the same time.

5. Introduce her to your friends. Women don’t want to feel like your dirty little secret. They don’t really plan on interfering with your "guy time". A woman just wants to know she's important enough to be brought into the circle. The same goes for your family, but women are much more forgiving when it comes to needing time for that to happen.

Next: Part Two: Entering Couple-dom


Girl in the 206 said...

I just started reading your blog....very well written! Check out my blog. I also have some links of other blogs that you might enjoy on my page.

As far as special things that my BF does for me, some mornings he will put a post-it note with a sweet little note in my laptop before I go to work. Then when I open up the laptop, I get a special surprise!

Girl in the 206 said...

I just started reading your blog...very well written! Seems like you and I have a similar mind-set! Check out my blog and also check out my links of the other blogs to read, I think you may find something to your liking!